My husband is amused by my reading advice columns. Years ago, it was Dear Abby or Ann Landers, depending on where we were living and what daily newspaper we subscribed to. These days, it’s Carolyn Hax on Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. I never actually look for the column, but certain headlines catch my eye. A … [Read more…]
Many positive words can describe my precious husband: kind, persistent, tolerant, loving, faithful, humble, honest, generous, wise. He has often said that the character trait that has helped him to achieve the most is perseverance–as he pursued me, his Ph.D., professional speaking, and, of course, God. But one of his prominent characteristics is being cautious. … [Read more…]
When Leandro was our reader/volunteer personal trainer in Brazil last summer, I asked Steve if he would go with me to my Silver Sneakers exercise class at the YMCA when we returned. Many of the flexibility and balance activities that Leandro had us do were similar to the program at the Y. Steve agreed that … [Read more…]
Appreciation is important to me, even on a superficial level. When I open a door for someone and that person says, “Thank you,” I feel warm and affirmed. When someone opens a gift from me, looks at me, and says, “Thank you,” I’m pleased. When someone says, “Thanks for the wedding gift. We love those … [Read more…]
When Steve and I were first dating in 1963, I clearly recall being on a bus bound for Wednesday services at a local church (since as freshmen neither of us had a car.) We were still in the get-acquainted stage, and Steve told me his life goals. He said he wanted to return to Bedford, … [Read more…]
One husband got a call from a local busybody, telling him that his wife was saving up money and making plans to leave him. He confronted his wife and she honestly denied it. He became very fearful that he might lose her. He started checking up on her constantly, calling or texting and then demanding to know … [Read more…]
Sunday at church I talked to my friend Lillian, who will be 94 years old this Saturday. She was not feeling great, and I said, “Well, I’m glad you are able to be here.” She answered, “So am I. But let me tell you—it was quite a project!” This is interesting to me because I’m … [Read more…]
I’ve known very well many couples who have been married to each other for over 50 years and many couples who are very sweet to each other; those two characteristics do not always go together. As one of my own relatives said, “What’s to celebrate about being married to him for 50 years?” The culture … [Read more…]
Jon Acuff gave his take on a modern version of Proverbs 31, which reminded me of my own version for men, so here it is. A husband of noble character, who can find? For his worth is far above diamonds. His wife trusts him completely and is confident of his love. He brings her good … [Read more…]
